Welcome to The Aging Games. In this video I will discuss what it's like to find out that my husband has Asperger's after 26 years of marriage. What I've learned in the past few weeks and how I'm dealing with the situation. I will also try to shine a light on the positive aspects of this condition.
Asperger's Syndrome also known as Asperger’s Disorder was first described as autism-like behaviors and difficulties with social and communication skills.
When you meet someone who has Asperger's Syndrome, you might notice two things right off. They're are highly intelligent but lacking in social skills and emotional intelligence. They also tend to have an obsessive focus on one topic or perform the same behaviors again and again.
▶️ People with Asperger syndrome are usually:
• Emotionally absent
• Have a difficult time forming intimate relationships
• Have a hard time showing affection
• They often seem cols and distant
• They tend to put all their energy and focus into one thing
• They tend to avoid social situations and prefer to be alone
Wives married to men with Asperger's often feel neglected and can develop something called Cassandra Syndrome.
Lack of empathy is one of the most challenging problems for someone with Asperger's who is in a relationship. The non-Asperger’s member of the relationship gets angry and hurt by the partner’s lack of emotion and understanding, over time, the emotional disconnect can chip away at the relationship. The non-Asperger’s partner often feels unloved, worn down, and depressed.
For the most part, people with Asperger’s want to be loving partners but they need help learning how to do it.
If you believe you have autism spectrum disorder, discuss your symptoms with your healthcare provider. You may be referred to a specialist, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, who can assess your behaviors and symptoms, and help determine if you have AS or another ASD.
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